Its my decision to stay or leave the Relationship?

hiya, i can't see a light at the end of a tunnel with your relationship.he will not get rid of his son,which i can understand.but he will not come to your house with his son.his son as got to come first, but if he really loved you he would make arrangements to see you even if he had to bring his son.i think maybe after 8 yrs you have been together,he may have had enough,you could have out grown each other,or he could have out grown you,but does not like telling you,hoping you will dump him first.you need to be honest with each other and sort it out and find out what your true feelings are for each other.8yrs is a long time with some one,and its now dwindled to hardly any Contact..talk to him.and if need be break up and look for a guy to love,and he loves you back,so you have a Future together.as you are at the Moment you never know when you will see your guy again,and life is ping you by.xxx